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I wanna try some bondage sex, what do you think? This is what your partner says to you one night, what is your reaction and how do you reply to this question? Bondage sex is growing and becoming more popular in the new things to try in the bedroom among couples. When one thinks of bondage sex they may think of handcuffs, whips, chains, and hot wax among many other things.

Well, to be honest, they are thinking correctly on what bondage sex involves, but for some, it may sound it could be a painful thing and that may be something that they are not into trying. For some they may enjoy a little spanking and not being in control, they prefer to have someone take control over them and receive pleasure from it.

Bondage can be an extremely sensual and loving act between two people. Believe it or not, bondage can actually be really, really sexy and fun when it comes down to it! Sex is one of the most difficult topics for a couple to discuss, but not for a couple involved in bedroom bondage because of the amount of open and honest communication they must have in order to play safely and effectively.

People involved in BDSM really and truly care about their partner’s pleasure and well-being before caring about theirs. The trust you have in with your partner and the trust your partner knows you have in them is an absolute turn on all by itself if you think about it.

Want to explore a little bedroom bondage, but you don’t really know where to begin?


A dominant is a person that has been given the power and is the one in control. The submissive is the bottom of the one that has given him/her self to the dominant, just so everyone is clear on who is in control.

Tie Me Up And Do Me

Restraint without pain is a mild form of bondage play for couples looking to explore when first starting out, there is no spanking, no whipping or paddling, so no pain involved. A majority of couples have tied their partner up in one way or another and have sexually pleasured them before, but have not explored further past that.

Restraint can be very fun for couples to try, if you do not feel comfortable having your hands tied up you can just simply simulate being tied up starting out. The other pleasure them with oral sex, manual stimulation, and even intercourse while being tied up or pretending to be tied up.

If you discover that this is something that you really enjoy and you feel comfortable and ready to move up to the next level then you have many options to go with when it comes to restraints.

  • you could get on all fours and have your ankles bound together
  • try on your side to spoon with your hands bound above your head
  • standing against the wall with your hands restrained behind your back
  • bend over a chair and have your wrists tied to its arms

Take a look at some Restraints here and see the many options you could go with.

I’ve Been Naughty

So, maybe you have tied your partner up or maybe your the one that likes to be tied up, what can you try next?

How about a little spanking while being tied up?

Spanking with some dirty talk can be a major turn on for couples looking to explore, now it does not have to be any hard spanking as to where your partner is in pain. Just something lite and friendly spanking for starting out. When engaging in spanking or whipping, you don’t always have to restrain your partner.

The best part and along with the benefit is that it keeps your partner in one position and in one place so that you don’t accidentally hit them in a place that could really cause some type of injury to them. For beginners, we really recommended that you stick to spanking and whipping the buttocks only when starting out, that’s the safest to spank someone.

I would say that starting with hand spanking is the best for beginners, that way as the spanker you feel what it is you’re doing to your lover and knowing how soft and how hard you are applying to your partners bottom.

Then after a little hand spanking, you feel that you are ready to move up to a paddle or some gentle whipping you can find an assortment of great Spanking items here.

Give It To Me Hard

Creativity is the key when it comes to all kinds of sex, especially bondage. Although lying on your back while tied up might be the first position that comes to mind, there are so many other to positions that you can try.

These are just a few simple ideas you can try, remember its all about being creative with what you would like to try.

Although it probably will not happen, sometimes urgent situations arise at the least convenient times so always have a safe word put in place when trying bondage sex. Really the basic principles behind having great kinky sex involve both you and your partner entering a realm that interests you and exploring it with a willing partner.

For example, if the idea of tying your lover to the bed and ravishing their body excites you, then start there and work your way up to something little more kinkier then been tied up.

The idea is not to hurt, or even create discomfort, but simply to immobilize your partner, making them completely helpless and at your mercy. Make sure to choose some soft materials as bindings – silken dressing-gown cords, featherlight chiffon scarves, stockings or strips of lace.

Explore Your Sex Desires

The ultimate sex game, Bondage embodies the elements of power, domination, submission, and surrender. Undertaken gently, and in the spirit of fun, there is no reason why it should be harmful to your relationship, provided of course that both partners are happy with the game and their roles within it

Whatever the type of bondage sex play you decide to choose, the most important thing is to remember is that it should be a pleasuring for the both of you. Should either of you wish to stop, you should stop immediately. But for many couples, a dabble into the |realms of fantasy adds an extra dimension to their sexual partnership.

Leave comments or share you bedroom desires below.

Peace, Love, and Happiness!

Daisy…

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